Prompts for discussion and/or writing:

• Why does the writer like to date older guys? What do you think of the reasons she gives?

• The writer says she likes the feeling of being controlled by an older man because it makes her feel “cared for.” Do you think that’s a healthy or positive way to feel cared for? Why or why not?

• When it comes to going out with someone, do you think about the person’s age? Why or why not?

• What could be some of the advantages of going out with someone older? The disadvantages?

Roleplay: Two students, playing the writer and a friend. The friend thinks the writer should look for a relationship where she’s an equal, instead of being controlled. The writer thinks there’s nothing wrong about going out with a guy who controls her.